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A Tribute To Men And Women "Never
Forget Your True Worth"
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message to all men Strength, honesty and drive for achievementas are the blessings that God has given us to create a backbone for society, and to create security within the family circle. God has designed man, to be the protector of his woman, and the one who helps her to maintain her tenderness and feminity, by loving and appreciating her company and support. This requires man to be tender and loving even if he has difficulty expressing himself in these ways. It also requires him to be a wise and honest leader who continually encourages strength, honesty and self-confidence in others. The man who uses patience and wisdom to apply these qualities into his life, and encourage these qualities in others, is the man who automatically attracts love and respect wherever he goes. A message
to all women In order to remind yourself that this truly is the case, all you need to do is to watch the reaction next time you walk into a room full of men and children and you call out to all of them with a cheerful hello. Did you know that the first woman who walks into a room full of men and children, usually causes a complete change, not only to the conversation going on, but also to the energetic atmosphere that fills that room? It is very easy to notice that men simply do not have
this Godly influence because they have not been given that very unique
gift of smile projection that comes deep from a woman's soul, a spiritual
energy that all women have been given to pass on to the people they
come in connect with. The only rule that allows this to work as God
intended, is that, in being a woman, you need to acknowledge that
you have these unique and very uplifting gifts, and to accept that
you are a very special person who has the power to comfort, encourage
and motivate others, "just by being present". Most Autoimmune
Disorders Develop Because We Lose Sight As an autoimmune specialist I have treated many people for serious health disorders and in most cases my clients have been women and many of the disorders I have treated have been caused by the ongoing stress of demanding and even degrading family or de/facto relationships. Through my observations I believe the preventative solution begins with understanding the role of man and woman in a romantic relationship, in the family circle and in society. At the age of ten I watched my father become an alcoholic after losing his life savings to a conman and then losing faith in his own potential to regain his foothold in life, and at age sixteen I watched my mother develop cervical cancer after putting up with several years of constant humiliation from my father, as she worked every day to provide for my sister, my two brothers and myself. My own autoimmune disorders also developed through living with the devastation of this disharmony. As a result of my many observations in this area, I have written the following Tribute to all women as I truly believe many women are not given anywhere near the support, compassion and respect they deserve in the family circle and in our society. After being a health professional and Christian motivational consultant for many years, I have also come to realise that many men are missing out on the amazing rewards that come from giving women this compassion, respect and support simply because they bottle up their frustrations instead of speaking them out and being positive about their own ability to regain their foothold on life. I want all men who read this Tribute, never to stop working on communication skills or take the women in their family for granted, never to underestimate the intuitive awareness and problem solving skills that women have, and never to forget that all a women really needs, to feel content and to love you with all her heart, is to feel protected, appreciated and loved. I also want all women who read this Tribute, never to stop working on communication skills or take their men for granted and never to bottle things up inside for so long that frustration has a chance to develop into depression and disease. Most men actually "need" to be confronted, in a loving way, by the woman they have chosen to live the rest of their life with, in order to feel challenged and stimulated within the relationship. Husbands and wives also need to spend time together relaxing at the end of each day without interruption for the relationship to remain romantic and vibrant. Continuing to enjoy the same absolute communication we establish when we first commence courting, placing our partner's feelings above our own at all times, and even having the strength to speak up when speaking up is difficult, usually supplies the solutions to most problems that arise in relationships and often supplies just what we all need, to sleep with a free and peaceful mind and a loving heart, which in turn, supplies the real solution to avoiding autoimmune disease. So many women
I treat for autoimmune disorders have developed Did you know, if a man is being devastated by the stress of his life, the first person he looks for to quench his stress, is a woman, because God gave women the amazing gifts of sensitivity and love, and the ability to extend a smile from deep within her heart, in a way that lifts a man's spirit and quenches stress, frustration and anguish like nothing else in life, often without even putting in any effort. Did you know, the reason God placed an automatic urge in men, to look for a woman first, whenever they are stressed and confused, to quench their stress and confusion, is because men know intuitively that women have this God-given sensitivity that allows them to know the answers about life that men don't know? Did you know that this gift of quenching has actually been responsible on many occasions throughout history, for preventing arguments, feuds and even wars? Did you know that men who have been used to being completely uncouth, completely untidy, completely disrespectful and completely unorganised in life and who think they will never change or that they cannot change, usually change "overnight" just through meeting a woman who reaches their heart with that wonderful inner smile projection that only a woman can give? Did you know that some hardened criminals who have never known their mothers due to being adopted at birth and who have subsequently rebelled completely against the legal system, have been known to be totally converted after being united with their mothers? Did you know that some hardened criminals who are not perturbed in the least at being sentenced to severe jail sentences, have often been terrified of having their mothers find out of their misbehaviour? Did you know that the moment a sister, mother, wife, daughter, granddaughter or grandmother has a regular place in the life of a brother, father, husband, son, grandson or grandfather, those boys and men automatically try harder in life to succeed, begin to think more respectfully of other people and place more importance on being honest, truthful and compassionate in their lives? Did you know that women either strongly suspect or truly know, that God is real, and the reason is because God made women very sensitive loving people so they could feel what a baby is experiencing while growing in the womb and know what a new-born baby is thinking, because very young children can't express their thoughts with speech. It is that very special sensitivity and love that God gave to women to allow them to nurture children, that also allows them to know that God is real and is always close by, to help them bring up and supervise his precious children, for Him? Even women who are not given the actual role of childbirth are still given these beautiful gifts because they are blessed with the role of supervisors as well as healer to all God's children, babies and adults alike to help take care of God's orphans in the world and people who can't figure out how to take care of their stress and confusion and who have no women close to them to turn to.. Alternatively, did you know that men usually don't believe that God is real and they often need serious convincing before they will even come close to accepting that God is real. The reason for this is, because God could not give men those very precious gifts of sensitivity and love required for the supervising and healing of children, because He needed to make men reasonably insensitive so they could stand strong in battle to defend these very essential gifts of sensitivity and love blessed into our women, against invading intruders? Did you also know that God designed the relationship between man and woman, to only work the way He wanted it to work when a man respects the beautiful gifts of sensitivity and love that He gave to woman and is willing to stand up strong to protect these gifts against all intruders. The end result, is that when and only when, man fulfils his role as the protector of these gifts of God, he will get to enjoy the fruits of this sensitivity and love in woman and this is also the only time he will benefit from the quenching that comes from them whenever he is stressed and confused? This means woman should always value her sensitivity and love and always use these gifts the way God intended her to use them, as they truly are personal gifts from Him. Alternatively, man should also, always value his strength and always use it the way God intended him to use it, as it is also, His personal gift. God intended us all to work in unity to make sure sensitivity and love flourish on earth and it also goes without saying that whenever our health or our lives begain to fall, it will be because we have allowed sensitivity and love to fall away from our our correct application and protection. God blessed women with many very special gifts, but most women are not aware of these Godly gifts that can make such a difference in their own lives and the lives of many people around them on a day-to-day basis. These Godly gifts of instinct, wisdom, patience and silent influence, set women far apart from all men, even men of incredible power in society and those gifts can allow a woman to touch people's hearts and souls, "just from walking into a room". A Tribute To
Men It is often a heavy load to carry, to be responsible
for the welfare and happiness of others, but by far, While counselling men for health problems over the years, quite often I have discovered that they have developed their health problems due to loosing their financial security or experiencing some sort of personal loss in the structure of their family life and I believe many of them may have handled their loss more effectively if they were to improve their communication skills, and call on their partner to help them. So many men assume that they cannot discuss their relationship shortfalls, emotional losses and fears with their partner, as this may deem them to be weak and incapable of solving every single problem, on their own. Every year we hear of large associations, companies and small businesses paying huge amounts of money to organise seminars and workshops to teach employees new skills and move them up the ladder of efficiency in productivity and management and it is taken for granted that if a new training program can help to increase profits, they need to be implemented. Whithin this process of commerce and productive efficiency, prioritising and communicating are two of the main factors that guarantee continued success. It is my belief that if we could manage our family life in a similar fashion, applying these business guidelines to our personal financial matters to develop family security and placing a priority on maintaining good communication to keep improving in our relationship skills, the divorce rate would plummet. A Message To All
Husbands The meaning of the word "wife" in the Oxford Dictionary, says: "partner in marriage" and a partner is a person who contributes equally in all matters, including problem solving, financial planning, moral values and social and romantic enjoyment. Gentlemen, never try to take the world on, on your own, as you will never win, but with a wife, you have more than an even chance. In business, if an employee, a manager or a partner is not conversant with one particular important aspect of that business but he or she has other talents that greatly enhance the business, that person is not thought of as inadequate due to the shortfall, but instead, that person is valued for their talent, and then encouraged to attend an education class that teaches the subject less known, and I believe this is how a shortfall in a marriage also needs to be dealth with. We should always keep our positive value and our existing talents at the forefront of our self-assessment and always be willing to communicate in order to improve, for we, none of us, can consider ourselves perfect. Gentlemen, make sure you stand up strong for your women whenever you need to, and embrace them every single day "and share your emotions" and never let an opportunity go by, that allows you to tell them you appreciate them and love them. Don't hold back any romantic impulse that some men so wrongly assume may make them appear to be weak, for if you fulfil your women with protection and romance and make them feel loved, appreciated and secure, they will bombard you with all that love and goodness in return, so much so, that your smile will become a permanent imprint on your identification. And one more thing, --- always communicate with them, as they have an inherrant instinctive intelligence that we simply do not have, and I truly believe that it is this communication that will bring out the best of Happiness, Integrity and Strength within you both. Authority, Encouragement
and Romance For those of you who already follow these ideals and who also teach your children to follow these ideals, God bless you. For the world needs more men and women of substance, achievement, strength, compassion and communication. Noel N Batten |